Takes courage to explore and discover the fullness of what makes you, You.

Question:  Should unhealed people pursue relationships?

My instinctual answer is one that I've found comfort in, due to my healing style.  Yes, we all have a healing style.  Perhaps we'll explore that in another episode.

However, there are parts of ourselves that are highlights & discovered within relationships; moments of which otherwise, we'd never know.  

Why? Because we all have the tendency to normalize behaviors that grant us comfort and familiarity.  Doesn't mean those behaviors are exactly functional, or healthy for that matter, just that we've normalized them.

Takes a high level of bravery to pursue most relationships these days. 

Not only intimate relationships, but career associates, friendships, spiritual advisors, all of it.  

Takes an ability to approach each attempt to connect, with a curious and adventurous mindset.  An ability to allow our human experience to evolve as we go and to practice techniques and tools we've mindfully put in place to be successful.  

Ask yourself; How do I practice setting ethical boundaries (for example), if there is no one around to apply the practical stance of instilling that boundary? 

We have to be willing to stretch ourselves beyond our hermit tendencies to test what we have learned.  All while allowing ourselves the opportunity to explore, expand and learn a helluva lot more.

Let's discover the unhealed parts.