Are you easily offended? I am not here to denounce your feelings or invalidate anyone's opinions. However, I am here to let you know that no one can make you change how you feel about yourself, but yourself. People these days are "projectors" they project how they feel about themselves onto you, in hopes that they can rattle you. Aht Aht don't let them do that. Look at yourself in the mirror and be so comfortable in your skin that no one can tell you anything about yourself, unless they are trying to build you up; uplift you! PERIODT!