Most people have been told since they learned to talk some version of “if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say it at all.” 

When you build, lead, or manage something, the very thing you’ve been taught not to do since you were two years old is suddenly part of the job. 😳

The thing is, to get the best result, you need to challenge and be challenged.

Keeping it productive and never personal can be tricky.