In this week's episode I talk about what the difference is living your life as Passenger over living your life as a Driver.

Being a passenger can mean that you are someone that watches your life pass you by. You are content with the choices that have been made for you. You really believe that you cannot achieve anything different. Maybe you believe you are not worthy of it maybe you believe you don’t want anything different.

Passengers can have fear of change

Fear of judgement

Fear of failure

Fear of the “what if”

I decided to become the Driver of the path of my life when it came to self acceptance of body image over a year ago. I wanted to have the control of what I thought was beautiful. I wanted to love every aspect of my self regardless of what other people believed was worthy of being loved.

Being the Driver can mean having "control" every day. You control how fast you drive. You can take the scenic, or highway. You end up having this new found confidence because You are in the drivers seat.

Imagine the freedom?

So I ask you these questions, 

How comfortable is it to stay in the passenger seat? At what point do you stop watching how other people live their lives?

When do you stop telling yourself that it cannot happen. 

When do you stop talking yourself out of what you want?

When do you become your own leader?

What do you think makes someone decide to become a driver in their own Life's Journey?

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Elaine xoxo