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Ever feel like you hit a milestone in your startup and immediately get handed the next problem? The episode explores why startup work rarely delivers a true sense of “done,” how founders get trapped by the arrival fallacy (believing the next round, milestone, or cushion will finally bring relief), and how the constant threat of being “eaten” by faster competitors turns ambition into paranoia. Ryan and Will compare the endless nature of startups to more finite work, discuss how chasing metrics and despising complacency fuels chronic restlessness, and share personal examples of goals that didn’t bring fulfillment. Their takeaway: startups are an infinite game, so founders need to create completion outside work—through finishable, tangible activities like cooking, workouts, sports, cleaning, or building projects—because completion is psychological maintenance, not a luxury.What to listen for:01:37 Goals vs Fulfillment02:46 Arrival Fallacy Explained03:42 Milestones Aren't Meaning05:16 Dopamine and Restlessness05:40 Painful Arrivals Stories09:13 Despising Complacency11:00 Getting Eaten Alive by Change16:09 Contentment vs Career Metrics18:24 Ad Break and Lamborghini Setup19:22 Breaking Down The Fees19:40 Paranoia About Losing It20:30 Advice Comes With Bias21:08 Founder Scarcity Mindset22:54 Finding Completion Offline26:32 Why Startup Wins Feel Empty31:41 Small Finishes Refill The Tank33:16 Buying Stuff Won’t Fix It35:57 Appreciation Versus Earning37:34 Manufacture Your Finish LineResources:Startup Therapy Podcasthttps://www.startups.com/community/startup-therapyWebsitehttps://www.startups.com/beginLinkedInhttps://www.linkedin.com/company/startups-co/Join our Network of Top FoundersWil Schroterhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/wilschroter/Ryan Rutanhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/ryan-rutan/