Stand Out Life
Stand Out Life
Ali Hill
Ep 178 Kat John - How To Stop People Pleasing And Live Authentically
1 hour 15 minutes Posted Jun 22, 2026 at 11:40 pm.
Intro
Music as a Lifeline
The Four-Year-Old Inside
When the Mask Began
Self-Loathing and Love
What Authentic Means
The Sledgehammer Moment
What Do You Want
Zero Fucks Tuesday
Weaponising Authenticity
The Authenticity Dance
Trust the Timing
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You built a successful life, followed the rules, and did everything "right" - so why do you still feel disconnected from your true self?
In this conversation with Kat John, we unpack authentic living, why we abandon ourselves to keep the peace, and how to stop performing for the approval of others.
Kat wrote the book ‘Authentic’, runs the Zero F*cks Movement, and you'll feel every part of her story in your chest.
You'll hear Kat's deeply personal journey through childhood trauma, six years of chronic pain, brain surgery at 23, and the single question from her neurologist that ended her pain in 10 months.
We also get into the daily practice that rewired her body, the trap of weaponising "authenticity" once you find it, and the body-based check Kat uses the second she walks into any room.
By the end, you'll have a clearer way to drop the mask, trust your gut, and feel at home in your own skin again.
Tune in to hear about
What authenticity really means in everyday life
Why people-pleasing can become a survival strategy
How childhood trauma can shape self-worth, relationships, and safety
Kat John’s experience with chronic pain, brain surgery, and mental health
Why high-achieving women often feel empty despite external success
How to be authentic while still honouring your relationships, responsibilities, and family life
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👉About Kat John
Kat John is an authenticity coach, speaker, and international author of “Authentic: Coming Home to Your True Self” - whose podcast has racked up over 2 million downloads worldwide.
After walking through childhood abuse, bulimia, drug addiction, and brain surgery, she now helps people reconnect with who they really are (and live a life that actually reflects it).
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👉Connect with Kat John
https://katjohn.com.au/
https://www.instagram.com/kat.john/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/kat-john/
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🟡Subscribe and follow along for more meaningful conversations with extraordinary people about living a boldly, connected, standout life.
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https://pragmaticthinking.com/
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