In today's episode, Shay Au Lait reads an essay that recounts her notions about dating submissive men. After expressing her ignorance to a friend, he offered her a new archetype to consider. It changed her mind immediately! *In this episode Shay Au Lait also begins with an introductory caveat, trigger warning and/or acknowledgment as in the timeframe of the story, she did not know to speak beyond the gender and sex binary.ABOUT: Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, a Podcast for intensely sensuous and deeply curious souls.Of what use is the Erotic? Hosted by Intellectual Sensual Shaman & Performance Artist Shay Au Lait, Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle is an occasional & moody podcast exploring the powerful intersection of sensuality, sexuality, and eroticism through the lens of spirituality and pleasure.  If you enjoy provocative stories, subversive conversations, and transformative thoughts, Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle is the podcast for you!Learn more: https://ShayAuLait.com/learn-more