In episode 20, Kim Nguyen & Eunsong Kim continue to discuss the kdrama, "It's Okay To Not Be Okay" (2020). We talk about: how the show was recently flagged for violating: “Article 27 on “Duties of Integrity” and Article 30 on “Gender Equality” (we wish we made this up) aka men's feelings were hurt some patriarch felt emasculated, how the show becomes a bit of "Mental health wizard of oz," the literal fear of becoming your parent, the trend of bad parents in kdrama (vs. the older trope of the parent who sacrifices), the reoccurring best friend as the hetero fantasy of the kinds of gendered labor men want to receive, and more :)trigger warning: parental abuse, attempted infanticidealso we are not mental health professionals--please take care while listeningfor your 2ndary pleasures:https://www.ebay.com/itm/NWT-600-Iro-Figons-Embroidered-Mini-Dress-SIZE-36/154083637319?hash=item23e019b847:g:8ZEAAOSwT4JfW9CWhttps://www.ebay.com/itm/ISABEL-MARANT-ETOILE-Gayle-chambray-jumpsuit-light-blue-size-FR-36/303681922819?hash=item46b4da6703:g:M58AAOSw04dfWQwhhttps://www.ebay.com/itm/AUTH-Dries-Van-Noten-Off-shoulder-gathered-floral-print-poplin-midi-dress/203095251824?hash=item2f496b9b70:g:gGoAAOSwjCNfU5EsMake your own corn cheese pizza: www.cookingmyfeelings.com/recipe/chees…pizza-koreanintro & closing music from Park Ji Yoon's "아무 것도 몰라요"