How are you handling sobriety as a family? Is it all rainbows and unicorns?  Or are you frustrated with the way things are not changing? You see even though our therapist gave us tools to use in our marriage after sobriety we did not have a clue how to implement them on a daily, weekly, monthly basis.  We were struck.  Willing and wanting to change but no real idea how to take the action steps to make that happen.