The media portrays the Dom/Sub relationship in a very Male/Female lens. Think about the porn you may have seen regarding this topic or the best selling books: 50 Shades of Grey (maybe i shouldn’t say this bc we didn’t talk about this at all but it may give people a frame of reference). These portrayals exist in real life, yes, AND there are other ways of having this relationship as well.The reality is, as humans, and within our individual sexual relationships, the dom/sub kink can be whatever the two people discuss together. Communication is the most important aspect when building trust in a sexual or romantic relationship. Open and honest communication is absolutely necessary.The intimate details:How R + J facilitate this kink together and with othersThe definition of BDSMHow all of these terms can mean different things to different peopleHow communication in and out of the bedroom is so important for people looking to explore this aspect of sexuality.How the ability to trust your partner is essential to the process.Questions or feedback? Please email [email protected].