I discuss a few variations of responses I have received regarding losing my wife to ovarian cancer. From the "Oh Fuck, that's a lot!" reaction to a genuine "I am sorry for your loss" reaction, I chat through what I prefer. I also discuss the growth I've experienced in the last several months in terms of sharing my grief and opening up in therapy. Ultimately, grief is a process with no finish line, so holding space for those who are grieving is a human super power that we can all tap into.