You've just met a guy, and you're on your first or second date and you think maybe he could be someone special. He seems like he has a lot of the qualities that you are looking for, but during your date he does something that turns you off—and maybe even makes you a little afraid . . . he mentions his ex. 

And maybe he doesn't just mention her, but he says some unpleasant things about her. Is this a red flag? I’m going to answer that question in this episode and give you some tips on what to do during your “he’s talking about her” date.