This week we discuss what it means to start examining issues without the thoughts of which is/or who has it worse. Of course running alongside that are the notions of changing our vocabulary and the blatant fact that it isn't that hard. And of course what kind of gays would we be if we didn't talk about Lil Nas X's new song Montero. Heaven and Hell theme for Pride this year? How about a Heaven and Hell YES! Bonus discussion about trashy Hollywood lists and the blatant nepotism that is clearly behind this years' number one sexiest bald man.....gross.