Sharing My Truth
Sharing My Truth
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She Dumped a Great Guy Because He Was Too Small. Was She Being Shallow?
21 minutes Posted Jun 17, 2026 at 11:45 am.
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A listener writes in with a dilemma that is guaranteed to divide opinions.
After watching our ”Does Size Matter?” video on YouTube, she sent in a story about her roommate, who recently ended a relationship because the sex wasn’t giving her what she wanted. Now she’s feeling guilty and wondering if she was too focused on one physical detail, or if sexual compatibility is a valid reason to walk away from an otherwise promising relationship.
So where’s the line between having preferences and being shallow? How important is sexual compatibility in a long-term relationship? And if something feels missing in the bedroom, is it fair to end things over it?