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First Date Red Flag Or Not? What Men And Women Shouldn’t Ignore
30 minutes Posted Mar 11, 2026 at 11:45 am.
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What questions should you really be asking when you’re dating someone new? And more importantly, what answers should make you pause?

In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie dive into the dating questions that quietly reveal red flags. These are the questions that can tell you a lot about someone’s character, emotional maturity, and intentions long before you get too invested.

From how someone talks about their ex to their views on commitment, honesty, money, and responsibility, the answers can reveal more than people realize. The problem is many of us hear the red flags and still convince ourselves they don’t matter.

Why do people ignore obvious warning signs? Are women sometimes telling themselves they’re in control when they’re not? Are men overlooking behaviours that later become relationship disasters?

Mel and Suzie break down the red flag dating questions everyone should be asking early on, what certain answers might really mean, and how to tell the difference between a harmless quirk and a real relationship warning sign.

If you’ve ever looked back at a relationship and thought, I should have paid attention to that, this episode will hit home.

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