Sober Not Boring
Sober Not Boring
Robert J. Woldhuis
Got Haters? Kill Them With Lunch! | Proverbs 25
6 minutes Posted Dec 26, 2025 at 4:36 am.
(MSG) gives us a strategy that is way more effective than a fistfight: "If you see your enemy hungry, go buy him lunch."
Introduction: The Power of a Grudge 00:18 Proverbs 25: A New Perspective 00:38 Verses 1-17: Wisdom and Leadership 02:06 The Pitfalls of Overindulgence 02:26 Understanding Addiction 02:50 Verses 18-22: Handling Haters 03:25 Kill 'Em with Kindness 04:00 Verses 23-28: The Dangers of Losing Control 05:03 Building Boundaries in Recovery 05:12 Final Takeaways and Encouragement
Introduction: The Power of a Grudge
Proverbs 25: A New Perspective
Verses 1-17: Wisdom and Leadership
The Pitfalls of Overindulgence
Understanding Addiction
Verses 18-22: Handling Haters
Kill 'Em with Kindness
Verses 23-28: The Dangers of Losing Control
Building Boundaries in Recovery
Final Takeaways and Encouragement
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Got Haters? Kill Them With Lunch. (Proverbs 25) šŸ„ŖšŸ”„
We love a good grudge. When someone comes at us, our addict brain wants to fight back. We want revenge. But Proverbs
It sounds crazy, right? Why would I feed the person who hurt me? Because kindness is a weapon. Verse 22 says it heaps "burning coals" on their head. It confuses them. It disarms them. It keeps your side of the street clean.
Today on Day 25, we are walking through Proverbs 25. We’re talking about handling enemies, moderation, and building boundaries.
In this video, we cover:
āœ… The Honey Trap: Why "eating too much honey" makes you sick—the perfect metaphor for addiction (v. 16).
āœ… The Hater Strategy: Why buying your enemy lunch is the ultimate power move (v. 21).
āœ… Broken Walls: Why a person without self-control is like a house with the doors knocked out (v. 28).
If you are tired of fighting, maybe it's time to try lunch.
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