Ari sits down with Therapist and Sex Worker Raquel Savage. Raquel talks about her fantasies, being autistic and on the Ace Spectrum, and educates us about sex work from a labor framework. We also discuss recognizing the signs of abuse, gaslighting, trauma bonding and how to heal from abuse using community and harm reduction.   TW: Mentions of Abuse and S.A. in this episode   Burning Questions answered in this episode: Raquel's fantasy Adult Male performer & her JUICY "best orgasm" story What is whorearchy, FSSW, and trauma bonding? Why the mental health industry is ill-equipped to handle Sex Workers as clients Red flags that signal abusive dynamics (and they aren't so obvious!) How Raquel is redefining sex for herself   Follow Raquel on Instagram and Twitter | Tip Raquel you know where   Donate to Raquel's non-profit Zepp Wellness   Mental Health workers & clinicians, sign up for Raquel's Equitable Care Certification   Check out Raquel's work: RaquelSavage.com   Video version of this episode available on Patreon _________   Follow our host, Ari, on Instagram @sensuelle.education   Follow SensuElle Podcast on Instagram & TikTok or subscribe to our newsletter   If you liked this episode, share it with a friend, and leave a 5-star review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. It really helps! Want to work 1:1 with Ari to heal your sensual side? Book a Coaching Consultation: https://www.arielleantwine.com/coaching