Sargent Major Tom Satterly came home a soldier and continued to soldier in his home life, it was all he knew but it was not working it was destroying his home.  Find more of his story here. 

Once he realized that he had to change or lose everything, he along with his 4th wife Jen started a foundation to help veterans and their spouses reconnect with each other on the home front.

https://selfdiscoverymedia.com/2020/02/10/gv20-07-veteran-sergeant-major-tom-satterly-on-all-secure-foundation/