Secret Habit
Secret Habit
Shawn Bonneteau; Helena Bonneteau
21. Living From a Shame Identity: How Shame Impacts The Way We Think, Act, Speak & Love
42 minutes Posted May 31, 2022 at 5:00 am.
: There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment
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Shame is all about "I am statements" that go against God's truth and love. Shame is to go-to in the enemy's playbook and it speaks directly to your identity... Shame tells you that you're dumb; replaceable; ugly; a failure; damaged; worthless and whatever other lies the enemy wants you to believe that are painful and destructive.
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In this episode, Shawn and Helena unpack the concept of shame language/ shame projection and dig into the topics of sexual shame and shame identity. With their own experiences of living deep in the throws of the enemy's lies, they know exactly how it feels to be stuck. However, they also know what it feels like to feel free from the lies and live in the truth of Jesus Christ, and they want to share about the transformation available to the identity of those who believe in His word. 
Because shame is at the root of addiction, we need to get deep into our belief system and begin to name the lies we have believed for far too long. It's these lies that keep people trapped in porn addiction, compulsive masturbation, the PMO cycle, sexual addiction, erectile dysfunction, and so many other sexual struggles that bring on sexual shame.
We dig into 3 incredible tools to help you begin breaking the lies so you leave this episode with insight, hope, and applicable tools to combat satan and his lies!
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3 key scriptures to hold onto when shame knocks on your door:
1. John 15: Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me.
2. 1 John
3. Romans 8: Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus
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Secret Habit Episodes mentioned for further help:
Ep 11: Sexual Template (Buy the Mini-Course Here)
Ep: 20: Body Shame