Secret Habit
Secret Habit
Shawn Bonneteau; Helena Bonneteau
11. Sexless, Sex-Starved and Sex-Deprived Christian Marriages
50 minutes Posted Mar 22, 2022 at 5:00 am.
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Sexless, sex starved and sex deprived marriages are becoming an epidemic that we can longer stand to hear about. We believe Christian marriages should be having the best sex, but sadly, this is not the case. Having a sexless marriage (or relationship) may be a sign of much deeper emotional and relational problems that can so easily go undetected. So with that, we want to take the time to unpack the ins and outs of what could be happening beneath the surface. In this jam-packed episode, Shawn and Helena put their focus on helping sexless marriages get on the right track. If you have struggled in your marriage up until now, we want you to know that you're not alone and that there is tremendous hope for the restoration of your sex life.
Topics covered in this episode:
- What is a sexless marriage and what may be causing the problem
- What brought us to making a sexual template
- How God intended sex to be good
- Unpacking the 6 steps to creating your very own sexual template
*Purchase the Sexual Template mini-course and create your very own! There's no better time to rediscover the joy of sex with each other than now.
- How porn addiction and betrayal trauma change the equation
Refer to Episode 6 for further insights on emotional and sexual intimacy 
Helpful Scriptures to hold onto:
- AND THE MAN AND HIS WIFE WERE BOTH NAKED AND WERE NOT ASHAMED:  GENESIS
- DRINK WATER FROM YOUR OWN WELL – SHARE YOUR LOVE ONLY WITH YOUR WIFE. WHY SPILL THE WATER OF YOUR SPRINGS IN THE STREETS, HAVING SEX WITH JUST ANYONE? YOU SHOULD RESERVE IT FOR YOURSELVES. NEVER SHARE IT WITH STRANGERS.: PROVERBS
- THE HUSBAND SHOULD FULFILL HIS WIFE’S SEXUAL NEEDS, AND THE WIFE SHOULD FULFILL HER HUSBAND’S NEEDS: 1 CORINTHIANS
- LET YOUR FOUNTAIN BE BLESSED, AND REJOICE IN THE WIFE OF YOUR YOUTH, A LOVELY DEER, A GRACEFUL DOE. LET HER BREASTS FILL YOU AT ALL TIMES WITH DELIGHT; BE INTOXICATED ALWAYS IN HER LOVE: PROVERBS
Mentioned in this Episode
- Family Life Canada: Neil and Sharol Josephson
- Greg Oliver: Awaken Ministries