Is sexual compatibility a thing? Or is it just a myth? In this episode, Shawn and Helena offer insights into reframing the way we define the term sexual compatibility. Get ready for a real discussion about a very real topic that's hot and heavy these days!
Because so much baggage comes into a relationship, we want to take this conversation deeper than most go... Its time to dig in and learn what's beneath the surface and what really matters most. When things like pornography and sexual addiction are beneath the surface, even sexual abuse and shame, these topics become rather messy. We want to bring light to the topic from a perspective that offers what we believe to be the greatest unification possible, and that's really what it means to be in a relationship with another.
Some focus points we get deeper into today are:
- The dictionary definitions of compatibility vs. Kingdom definition
- The Cultural narrative vs. Christian narrative
- How we have been influenced by our past
- Asking deeper questions and becoming curious to find out what is true
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Check out Episode 3 and Episode 4 to hear Helena and Shawn's personal stories that tie into everything they're sharing here.
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Resources mentioned:
- Beneath The Skin: Betrayal Trauma Video Program - Helping women give their pain a voice
- Doug Carpenter - "Secret Shame" book
- Becoming Curious Coaching Video - Learn how to quit porn once and for all
- Erectile Dysfunction mini-course - Learn how to create a sexual template and rediscover the joy of sex with your partner
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