Rules and Tools
Rules and Tools
Set Free Team
Ep 50 | Fighting For Marriage with Shane & April Humphrey
34 minutes Posted Apr 29, 2025 at 9:00 am.
"It's a miracle that you two are still together!" Join April and Shane Humphrey, a married couple who have been on an incredible journey of self-discovery and growth. They recently appeared as individual guests on the Rules & Tools podcast, but now return together with host Jay, sharing their inspiring story of overcoming challenges in their marriage. From struggling with porn addiction to finding their home in the church, they've learned that being a Christian doesn't mean you can't have fun. April shares her shocking experience of being taken to hell, and how that encounter changed his perspective on life. The couple also opens up about their struggles with generational curses, abandonment issues, and how they learned to fight fair in their marriage. April and Shane emphasize the importance of having a helper in life and how it's taken them 40 years to get it right. If you're looking for a real and raw conversation about marriage, faith, and personal growth, this video is for you.***CHAPTERS***
Intro
It Took me 40 years to get it Right
How We Met
I Was Addicted to Porn in our Marriage
The "I'll be Happy When..." Game
You can be a Christian and Have Fun
I Was Taken to Hell
There's More to it than Just Being Saved!
How We Found our Home in the Church
My First Return Event Changed my Life
What the Freedom Appointment is Really About
Know the RULES & use the TOOLS
Why you NEED a helper in your life
How to Fight in your Marriage
Sponge Juice Analogy
Generational Curses in Our Marriage
How my Abandonment Issues Triggered Me
What to do When you are Triggered
We Dealt with all Past Sexual Sins
Why has God Called you to be Married?
Message for those Who are NOT Married yet
Praying for Freedom for your Spouse
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"It's a miracle that you two are still together!" Join April and Shane Humphrey, a married couple who have been on an incredible journey of self-discovery and growth. They recently appeared as individual guests on the Rules & Tools podcast, but now return together with host Jay, sharing their inspiring story of overcoming challenges in their marriage. From struggling with porn addiction to finding their home in the church, they've learned that being a Christian doesn't mean you can't have fun. April shares her shocking experience of being taken to hell, and how that encounter changed his perspective on life. The couple also opens up about their struggles with generational curses, abandonment issues, and how they learned to fight fair in their marriage. April and Shane emphasize the importance of having a helper in life and how it's taken them 40 years to get it right. If you're looking for a real and raw conversation about marriage, faith, and personal growth, this video is for you.***CHAPTERS***(0:00) Intro (0:58) It Took me 40 years to get it Right(2:40) How We Met(5:40) I Was Addicted to Porn in our Marriage(8:15) The "I'll be Happy When..." Game(9:46) You can be a Christian and Have Fun(11:10) I Was Taken to Hell (12:16) There's More to it than Just Being Saved!(13:38) How We Found our Home in the Church(15:39) My First Return Event Changed my Life(17:00) What the Freedom Appointment is Really About(19:00) Know the RULES & use the TOOLS(20:38) Why you NEED a helper in your life(22:09) How to Fight in your Marriage(23:40) Sponge Juice Analogy(24:48) Generational Curses in Our Marriage(26:13) How my Abandonment Issues Triggered Me (27:32) What to do When you are Triggered(28:12) We Dealt with all Past Sexual Sins(29:57) Why has God Called you to be Married? (32:10) Message for those Who are NOT Married yet(32:54) Praying for Freedom for your Spouse(33:55) Closing Comments700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]