
...Dating other men while you're in a relationship. Ha!
This is so foreign to us, and why?
We've, we've always been like this, really.
Our grandmothers, our aunts, all were like this.
It was the dance card thing. Scarlett O'Hara was like this.
Nobody, but nobody ever expected somebody to go steady with them or be exclusive with them without already stated intentions or some kind of structure from your community and the religious group or cultural group that had rules.
Other than that, we've just started to be going steady with guys since the fifties!
I mean, it's recent. It's just like a "thing".
And who does it benefit? Men!
They get to have you as a girlfriend without committing in any way, shape, or form.
At least you used to have a going steady ring.
We don't even do that anymore.
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Love, Rori
May 7, 2024
10 min

So let's just start, let's say there are four roads - and three of them are the wrong roads.
They're not going to get you anywhere in love.
There is the mental road, the mind road, your mind, your intellect, your thoughts, your smarts, the mental road, the thought road.
All that is, is masculine energy. He already can sense that you're smart.
He knows what you do in your life.
He gets to know how you function and who you are and what you say and what you do and about how you feel.
Being impressed with you is literally not something that's going to make him fall in love.
It's going to push him away.
If anything, definitely make him a friend...
Learn the other three "wrong" roads, and how to truly "make him fall..."
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Love, Rori
Apr 30, 2024
7 min

This is Rori’s ‘take’ on the whole authenticity piece.
Because this, Authenticity, goes into everything around ‘work’, too, if we're really honest.
And if we could talk about this topic from an artistic standpoint, and how it's so radical - Authenticity is the magic that gives us the kind of relationships we want, no matter what walk of life we're in.
When we can get down to this very honest, authentic place -- which also involves quite a bit of vulnerability, the doors of love open up for us to make profound connections.
Natalina Love is asking Rori about ‘unconventional relationships’ right along with the whole 'existential love crisis'…. Where and what is it?
Love and relationships can be quite the puzzle, can't they? It's okay, we've all been there.
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Apr 19, 2024
28 min

So what happens when you feel disappointment, where do you go from there?
And more specifically, we also want to bring in the feeling of disappointment in business, as well as in love.
An across the board thing is that we’re growing our bandwidth, we're growing our emotional bandwidth, we're growing our mental bandwidth, we're getting bigger in both business and in love - regardless of what kind of work life you have.
Maybe it's also your life as a domestic goddess, all the things that make up your life.
We want to invite it all to come into a space of healing and transformation, whatever your Siren dreams are.
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Love, Rori
Apr 12, 2024
29 min

In this podcast, we're talking about "looping":
Looping back to the whole thing about our triggers - the things through the whole dating process and developing a solid committed relationship.
The idea is to get excited about you...and...
...to notice yourself complaining about the men who are showing up on your dating profiles, on your dating apps, or even in the relationships you're in.
This "complaint" part is universal to wherever you're at in the dating and love timeline, and Naomie Thompson is brilliant at helping you solve it so it no longer gets in the way of getting what you want.
Naomie Thompson is not only an influencer coach, she's the Director of Rori Raye Coach Training and teaches in The Siren Mastermind.
To get real help to Get Everything You Want from your Feminine Energy, experience The WANT Masterclass here:
https://www.coachrori.com/the-feminine-want-masterclass/
Love, Rori
Apr 5, 2024
17 min

When the answer from someone else is "No" - it can stop you in your tracks.
Find out what you want, what you need, what kind of Feminine Energy space you need to be in, in order to Inspire a man, and to inspire the world.
Here, in this video, I want to bring in the whole Business Siren world as well.
The whole marketplace of the world into our Atmosphere, fairly big topics.
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Love, Rori
Mar 25, 2024
21 min

I've just been Googling how to choose a life philosophy. Which may sound silly to some people, but it's really been like a come-back-to-the-fundamental-basics for me.
For some people, this is simple. So many of my friends were brought up with a particular religion or spiritual path, or found their way later in life, and so many of my family and friends are atheists and agnostics who don’t feel a need for a spiritual life at all.
I'm fascinated by all of that.
And I'd love to do a big panel of people who have varying different life philosophies and different approaches to what life means, what some call “the supernatural” that others call the truth, and how they feel with what they believe that affects their life during rough times.
During slow times.
Like I'm waiting for my man to show up.
Like I feel bad. I have ill health.
What do we do in those moments?
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Love, Rori
Mar 18, 2024
36 min

Everybody is judgmental, and everybody is self-judgmental.
It doesn't just disappear because you want to be an upstanding person.
We call that basically covering over everything, and stuffing and all the garbage underneath.
And we don't want to do that.
We want to bring all the judgment and all the anger and all the crappy feelings that everybody has and attitudes to the surface.
It's so natural to fall into a crappy attitude, really, where everything you see is like, yuck. And then you have to say something, wait a minute, wait a minute.
Why am I doing that?
So that is the key to it.
Basically, I believe that we are all unconditionally loved by the universe because we're here and alive.
And all you have to do is go, well, I'm alive. I'm here. I'm on this planet. I am unconditionally loved. I'm still here.
If you’d like personal help with whatever’s going on for you, come to Siren Island program, where you’ll have live classes, live coaching, and a Masterclass with me throughout each month:
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Hope to see you on Siren Island! Love, Rori
Mar 11, 2024
37 min

We all have masculine and Feminine energies. They just work in different ways.
They have different purposes.
We have different circuit boards in our brains.
So, this is very tricky for all of us right now in this world, because it’s masculine energy that seems to be wrecking the world, right?
Power, a need for control…that’s not feminine energy, that's masculine energy.
Old fashioned, crazy-power-seeking, I'm in charge… you've met men like this everywhere.
So how do you respect that? How do you appreciate that?
And when we see masculine energy out of control and wanting so much control, and we see Feminine Energy being unallowed, and so caged in.
Haven't you felt like you're about to burst when you just couldn't express yourself?
Couldn't even cry.
Couldn't, didn't feel like you could be you..
And we’ve all felt that way at times.
And then, often, we go into “drama”, which is total masculine energy!
We do that because we don't know what to do with the Feminine Energy…there doesn’t seem to be an “appropriate” place or circumstance to let ourselves “out”.
It's not like we're using our masculine energy for our own good. We're just escaping into it.
To help you stop all the “escape” mechanisms we’ve all been taught in order to make other people feel more comfortable with us and our emotions - experience the Feminine Want Masterclass here -
https://www.coachrori.com/the-feminine-want-masterclass/
With The Feminine Want process, you’ll learn how to fully, surprisingly discover what you want at the deepest level, express it in ways you may have never thought were possible, and literally GET what you truly want.
Love, Rori
Mar 4, 2024
26 min

So if a guy actually opens his mouth and says, I saw a girl at the gym today…
He says: “She was really hot.”
Is that a good thing? Yes!
99 percent of the time, a man will just keep it, you know, in his head and it might make him move towards you more…You might wonder why he's got, uh, you know, all of a sudden a sexual interest in you out of nowhere, you know?
So do you really want to shut that down?
No.
So that is a big ask for you. To not shut down a man.
And so if he tells you that - I would just go, “...Wow, I feel really excited that you actually told me and shared that…”
If you’re suffering from jealousy and worry about a man you’re dating, try the Feminine WANT masterclass, here, to learn how to communicate and GET what you Want, and not stay stuck in what disappoints you…
https://www.coachrori.com/the-feminine-want-masterclass/
Love, Rori
Feb 26, 2024
45 min
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