Show notes
Success isn’t just about talent, money, or opportunity—it’s about the skills nobody teaches you, and few people talk about. In this episode of the Reverence Podcast, Black Cowboy Tae and DJ peel back the layers on the unseen disciplines that separate those who talk about success from those who live it. Tae brings a thoughtful and grounded perspective, highlighting skills such as consistency, emotional control, effective communication, and long-term thinking. DJ counters with raw, unfiltered truth—calling out shortcuts, entitlement, and the uncomfortable habits most people avoid—no motivation fluff. No side-taking. Just reality. This episode challenges how you measure growth, how you handle pressure, and how you play the long game in business, relationships, and life.Time stamps:0:00 - Preview1:30 - Intro2:56 - The hidden reality of a 9-5 (cons)7:03 - The hidden reality of a 9-5 (pros)11:39 - The hidden reality of an entrepreneur (cons)16:12 - The hidden reality of an entrepreneur (pros)22:08 - Ad Break22:27 - What did a 9-5 teach you? (DJ)31:48 - What did a 9-5 teach you? (Tae)35:00 - How did the lack of soft skills impact your life? (the importance of parenting)43:40 - Ad Break43:59 - Why do people glamorize entrepreneurship?51:48 - How to actively listen to understand anyone (pattern recongitions) 55:56 - Do people tell the truth about success or life in general?1:05:35 - Outro

