Hear this raw conversation with Julie Sedenko and Jessica about recognizing and escaping covert abuse in her Christian marriageRESOURCESLeslie Vernick's websiteLeslie's Quick Start GuideThe Relationship TimelineLove bombing during dating phaseEmotional regulation issues during engagementMarriage lasted 2 yearsEnded with 6-week separationRed Flags & PatternsHusband proud of his "manipulation talent"Consistent gaslighting and emotional controlSexual addiction disclosed pre-weddingFinancial dependence despite her being primary breadwinnerIsolation from family and friendsTurning PointsThe wedding incident revealing deeper issuesWriting "the letter" that sparked changeBreaking point during Bible studyUnderstanding God's word "faithful" in new lightFinding HelpLeslie Vernick's teachingsCORE program principlesConquer programChurch community support