<p class="">Brian McLaren, the speaker and author of several bestselling books, discusses how our desire to have certainty gets in the way of truly loving others.</p>








































































  

    
  
    

      

      
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Episode 36 - Not a Partnership

Jon R Anderson has helped thousands of couples through his books, workshops, courses, and counseling. He and his guests discuss what works and what doesn't work when it comes to relating with each other.