<p>Jon R Anderson and Mark Abshier discuss the merits of the ideas of "husband as head", submission in marriage, and, the power struggles that arise as a result.</p>








































































  

    
  
    

      

      
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Episode 19 - A Train of Thought That Gets Derailed

Jon R Anderson has helped thousands of couples through his books, workshops, courses, and counseling. He and his guests discuss what works and what doesn't work when it comes to relating with each other.