In episode 16 Amber and Danny use the New York Times Article, "The 36 Questions that lead to love" by Daniel Jones to discuss getting to know you questions. This article is based on Mandy Len Catron's essay "To fall in love anyone, do this" where she discusses a study by psychologist Arthur Aron and his associates which notes that intimacy can be accelerated by a specific series of questions. Amber and Danny break down the 36 episodes, beginning with part 1 here. 

New York Times article: https://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/09/style/no-37-big-wedding-or-small.html?smid=fb-nytimes&smtyp=cur&fbclid=IwAR3nLFUleVc34bj6shIjXtCWG_U5wgKrxm8upEcEcqYIXsaJv4m42IzyjRM