Are you seeking praise or purpose? This is the question I have to ask myself all the time in order to keep my people pleasing tendencies in check. I&#8217;m a natural people pleaser. I want to be helpful; I want to be liked. Not bad things, but when those desires come before or at the cost of my purpose, issues arise. Today we discuss how you can recognize areas in your life where you should cut back on people pleasing and how to do that.  Resources <a href="https://psychcentral.com/lib/21-tips-to-stop-being-a-people-pleaser/">21 Tips to Stop Being a People Pleaser</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rhFDM4YtAjM">5 Signs You&#8217;re a People Pleaser</a> <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/what-mentally-strong-people-dont-do/201708/10-signs-youre-people-pleaser">10 Signs You&#8217;re a People Pleaser</a> <a href="https://www.aconsciousrethink.com/9076/approval-seeking-behavior/">12 Examples of Approval Seeking Behavior (+ How to Drop Your Need for Validation)</a> <a href="https://www.liveyourtruestory.com/13-approval-seeking-behaviours-you-need-to-stop-confidence/">13 Approval Seeking Behaviors You Need to Stop</a> <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/your-emotional-meter/201807/how-let-go-the-need-approval">How to Let Go of the Need for Approval</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-KQb3Mx2WMw">Ze Frank Video</a> Inspiration of the Week <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KMJTnB-50zE">Aaron Gwin Bike Video</a>



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