RealiTEA Podcast
RealiTEA Podcast
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Episode 188: The Social Thermostat – The Unseen Cost of Bullying
54 minutes Posted Jan 13, 2026 at 1:15 am.
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The bruises may fade, but the exhaustion of pretending to be “okay” often lingers. Bullying leaves behind an invisible weight — the constant emotional labour of adjusting yourself to feel safe, accepted, or unnoticed. This quiet strain, often unspoken, takes a serious toll on mental well-being.


In this episode of RealiTEA Podcast, hosts Kamila, Hajar, Ernie, and Adam speak with Nabilah Burhanuddin, Lead Clinical Psychologist at Sage Centre, to unpack the idea of the “social thermostat” — the unseen coping mechanisms victims adopt to survive. Anchored in SDG 3.4 (Good Health and Well-Being), the conversation explores the hidden cost of bullying, the emotional void it creates, and how reclaiming your story can be a powerful step towards healing.


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