We are currently in a series called "The List." The List refers to a list of ways you can lose your marriage and is based on information gleaned from over 20 years of counseling records. Past trauma is like a land mine. It’s often hidden, below the surface. But later it can blow up in you life hurting you and your relationships. In this episode, we’ll look at what is trauma, the effects of trauma on an individual, how it can hurt a marriage, and what you can do about it.