The biggest threat to society is an independent mind. Today, I am sharing my experience of being banned on yet another social media platform. I welcome back my dear friend Kayote Ahimsa to discuss the societal conditioning that is causing this generation to extinguish their pleasure and outsource their authority to the intellectual regime.   In this episode, we discuss non-attachment as a pathway to freedom. Even if you face adversity in any form, it does not diminish your mission. Living in pleasure allows you fluidity that is not bound to a single job, platform or modality; your energy is the true currency of your success and that will flow with you no matter how fate transforms your circumstances. I teach you to make room for grief without succumbing to it because I believe pleasure takes many forms and even the heartbreak of loss opens you to a new mystery. Life is always happening FOR you and never to you!   Key Takeaways: [5:00] Women’s voices are being silenced [8:00] The modern witch hunt: freethinkers a threat to society [10:30] Society is teaching you to outsource our authority [13:00] Pleasure is one the highest vibration that can elevate your consciousness [16:40] Experiencing the emotional shock [18:00] Life happens FOR you not to you [20:00] Allowing yourself to feel your grief without getting lost in it [23:45] Non-attachment is profound because nothing is guaranteed  [26:30] The mystery is filled with magic, surprise and expansion [30:30] You can’t make it happen and you can’t f*ck it up [35:00] Your intuition is a weapon against conditioning [38:00] Only do it if you love it [45:00] You are your own medicine [50:00] Refusing to be a slave to anything   Resources: https://www.instagram.com/kayotejoseph/?hl=en https://www.kayoteahimsa.com/   Memorable Quotes: “Anyone who is a teacher, like you, is a threat because we’re free thinkers and we’re out of the box thinkers and we’re more radical and rebellious in wanting to make sure that we go in a way that feels true to us.”   [8:25] -Josefina Bashout   “We are being lied to. The public school system in America tells us that we need to sit still and be quiet and do what we’re told and to raise our hand if we want to take a shit and we learn to outsource our authority. We get told we’re not enough so we become good little worker bees.”[10:35] -Kayote Ahimsa     “Not being attached to the platform being the thing. My work is my work no matter what because it’s my dharma. I'm going to do this, you can’t stop me.”    [25:20] -Josefina Bashout

Today, I am joined by BiBi Brzozka, a holistic sexuality teacher helping women awaken their sexual energy. Anyone can learn how to bring themselves to orgasm but without encompassing self love and energetic healing first, you minimize your capacity to experience the full scope of your pleasure. Holding onto trauma and shame blocks your energy from flowing, so today BiBi teaches you simple practices that bring awareness to the sensations of the subtle energy flowing within you. Pleasure depends on no one but yourself and by honing your capacity to self satisfy and self love, that energy will naturally overflow into your sexual experiences with a  partner. Watch your life transform as you release your inhibitions and move into the sexual prime of your life!   Key Takeaways: [5:45] Living an unfulfilled life that isn’t aligned with your desire [11:40] Attempting to fill the void with quick easy pleasure [14:10] The gift of a mid-life crisis [17:10] Searching for joy and awakening your sexual energy [20:00] Confusing an energetic connection with sustainable love [23:40] Shifting into a feminine energy [25:20] Understanding energetics [28:00] Slowing down to feel the subtle energy [35:00] Overcoming the taboo and the assumptions [41:00] Learn to play your own instrument  [43:20] You don’t need anything outside yourself to experience pleasure [46:30] Slowly to build trust because faster is not always better [48:00] Going beyond a pleasure technique and learning self love [51:40] High Vibration Masterbation      Resources: Join the Self-Love Mastery Program and get the tools needed to master your love life in just 8 weeks! https://www.josefinabashout.com/digital-courses/p/self-love-mastery-program Website: josefinabashout.com Awaken your confidence & feminine fire: https://www.josefinabashout.com/awaken-the-fire-sign-up  Foria Wellness for dripping wet pleasure & arousal: https://glnk.io/j703/josefinabashout: 20% off JOSEFINABASHOUT20 Onna Lifestyle for pleasure tools: https://www.onnalifestyle.com/?ref=7SQdeda72sK20   Connect with Bibi: https://www.bibibrzozka.com/ https://www.instagram.com/planetbibi/?hl=en Ladder to Bliss: https://bibi-brzozka.webflow.io/ladder-to-bliss   Memorable Quotes: “My inner environment became a fertile ground for new seeds and I ended up at a workshop where I awakened my sexual energy and I experienced my first full body orgasm and once that energy is on, it’s on!”  [17:47] -BiBi Brzozka   “When you take two magnets and you bring them together really really fast you can’t even perceive that they are magnets. In order to feel that energetic and gentle pull you have to really really slow down and then you don’t actually have to do anything anymore because the magnets gently pull towards each other.”  [28:08] -BiBi Brzozka   “If I just teach you how to stroke your pussy to have an orgasm and to find your g-spot and just rub it but you’re still experiencing shame around self pleasure and you’re still don’t know how to set your own boundaries or ask for what  you want then this is all just gonna skim the surface. So we go deep into the experience because it’s not just a technique.” [48:30] -BiBi Brzozka

Join the Self-Love Mastery Program and get the tools needed to master your love life in just 8 weeks!  https://www.josefinabashout.com/digital-courses/p/self-love-mastery-program   Are you constantly chasing men and finding yourself dissatisfied? A self actualized woman does not chase but  attracts that which compliments herself and her desires. In this episode,  I am teaching you how to embody the intentions of your desires so you can stop changing yourself  to suit the needs of others. To be receptive is innately femenine and if you are resisting that integral part of yourself you will continue to chase and never feel the exultation of magnetism, a modality only achieved when you are deeply connected to your own body and desires. Once you embrace your femenine receptivity, all narratives of unworthiness slip away and you will become a magnet to all that you desire.    Key Takeaways: [4:00] The difference between chasing and magnetizing  [5:20] Desire is an energetic experience  [7:38] How you embody the intention of your desire dictates how it manifests [11:00] Chasing draws your energy outward instead of from within [12:45] A dating detox will help you begin magnetizing  [13:30] The female principle of receptivity [16:00] Let go of your self judgment so you can embody your desires [18:00] Drop into your womb space [19:18] Unlock your wildest potential in love, pleasure and sex [20:00] Write and burn: discard it in gratitude [21:50] Letting go of the narrative of unworthiness   Connect with Josefina: Instagram: @josefinabashout @pusssypriestessshow Website: josefinabashout.com Awaken your confidence & feminine fire https://www.josefinabashout.com/awaken-the-fire-sign-up  Foria Wellness for dripping wet pleasure & arousal https://glnk.io/j703/josefinabashout 20% off JOSEFINABASHOUT20 Onna Lifestyle for pleasure tools  https://www.onnalifestyle.com/?ref=7SQdeda72sK20   Memorable Quotes: “Chasing happens when you are reaching with your energy, and when you are  reaching with your energy you are more  outside of your body then you are inside of your body.”    [11:22]   “Allow yourself to come into your body in a way that is going to let you feel all of your feeling which is essentially the femenine. Being femenine and femininity comes down to fully feeling and fully expressing your feelings.”  [14:05]   “When our body is open our energy field is open and we’re inside of our body which makes us magnetic.” [16:05]   “When we meet ourselves is when we become magnetic. When we start to become magnetic,  we feel magnetic, something quite magical happens which is that our conscious mind drops the story of unworthiness. It’s not even at the forefront of our mind when we’re in the field of magnetism because we’re holding the full vibrational force of the entire universe within us.” [21:50]

Do you crave a more intimate and sensual sexual experience that fulfills your deepest desires? Today, I am sharing my 5 Ingredients to spectacular sex! Desire is the driving force of our sexuality and true intimacy comes after we can claim our own desires and share them with our partners. With these 5 ingredients you will open yourself up to the full scope of your sexuality, unlocking your divine power that will overflow from your bedroom into your entire life!    Key Takeaways: [5:30] Ingredient 1: Work out your lower body to feel more horny, excited and aroused [8:30] Draw energy into the body and out of the head [9:40] Ingredient 2: Create a desire list so you can define what you want in the bedroom and life [12:15] Co-creating a desire list with your partner [14:00] Be vulnerable and courageous when claiming your desires [16:30] Ingredient 3: Self pleasure practice is a crucial part of spectacular sex [18:00] Allow yourself to be vulnerable with yourself and take control of your own pleasure [21:15] Understanding your own sexual power and bringing it back to the relationship [22:17] Ingredient 4: Play and Praise! Let go of the goal and performance [24:00] Recognizing the divinity in your partner through playful expression [26:55] Ingredient 5: Sharing a tantric breathwork practice together [27:30] Leave behind trauma bonding and create pair bonding [29:30] Creating the third energy can only be done together     Resources: Join the Self-Love Mastery Program and get the tools needed to master your love life in just 8 weeks!  https://www.josefinabashout.com/digital-courses/p/self-love-mastery-program Instagram: @josefinabashout @pusssypriestessshow Website: josefinabashout.com Awaken your confidence & feminine fire https://www.josefinabashout.com/awaken-the-fire-sign-up  Foria Wellness for dripping wet pleasure & arousal https://glnk.io/j703/josefinabashout 20% off JOSEFINABASHOUT20 Onna Lifestyle for pleasure tools  https://www.onnalifestyle.com/?ref=7SQdeda72sK20   Memorable Quotes: “If we work out our lower body, consistently, and I mean several times a week; you are going to notice a shift. You’re going to notice a boost in your testosterone, both men and women, which creates us to feel horny, excited and aroused.”  [5:50]   “Desire is what moves energy, It moves us. It’s what comes through us, inside of us.”  [10:00]   “Be vulnerable and be courageous with your desire list. This is an opportunity for you to actually open up, maybe for the first time, maybe for the first time in a long time, about what you genuinely truly desire and that would light you up.” [14:00]     “It’s easier to let someone else take the reins of our pleasure but for us to really know what our pleasure is requires deep self intimacy and vulnerability.”  [18:00]   “Can you find the things that you genuinely, truly can celebrate in the other person and praise them, not because they're a god above you but because you can actually recognize that you’re a goddess and they’re a god.We’re all the divine and can you praise the divinity within them through a playful expression.”  [24:59]   “Starting with an eye gaze and seeing their loving essence requires us to tune into our hearts so that we can dissolve our ego and get out of our brain and get back into the body.” [28:30]

Join the Self-Love Mastery Program and get the tools needed to master your love life in just 8 weeks! https://www.josefinabashout.com/digital-courses/p/self-love-mastery-program   Adriana Rizzolo is a somatic healer, adult sex educator, and a grief and aliveness doula. She is the founder of Body Temple Church, a resource for women to learn to transmute their understanding of suffering and embrace it as a necessary part of physical existence.    Pain is capable of expanding your outlook and bringing you into transformative acceptance of reality. Initiations are happening during each phase of your life, whether consciously or unconsciously. Her use of movement to free the body allows you  to build trust in your own unique experience and express your authentic self.    By embracing the true scope of your identity you open yourself to unconditional love which is a vital part of your experience in this physical body.   Key Takeaways: [7:30]  Holding the paradox of our human experience and the life beyond [9:20] Grief manifests from loss but also from lack of validation [11:00] Transforming your suffering through initiation [15:00] Embracing your body’s cyclical nature [17:40] Will you question or surrender to the charm of the initiation [19:00] Climbing Goddess mountain [20:50] Using your pain and trauma to find liberation [22:00] Using dance and movement as a vehicle to heal [25:00] Sobriety found at the altar of the goddess Durga [28:00] Body temple dance: When you can’t sit still anymore [30:50] Accepting a free form approach liberated from structure [35:00] Radically accepting what is because you are not broken [40:00] Value you unique experience [43:00] Worshiping your body as your devine vehicle [49:00] Learning to express both higher or lower frequency of emotions [56:00] Reclaiming your primal eroticism   Connect with Adriana: https://www.bodytemple.church/ https://www.instagram.com/artofloving/   Connect with Josefina: Instagram: @josefinabashout @pusssypriestessshow Website: josefinabashout.com Awaken your confidence & feminine fire https://www.josefinabashout.com/awaken-the-fire-sign-up  Foria Wellness for dripping wet pleasure & arousal https://glnk.io/j703/josefinabashout 20% off JOSEFINABASHOUT20 Onna Lifestyle for pleasure tools  https://www.onnalifestyle.com/?ref=7SQdeda72sK20   Memorable Quotes: “Everything I really have to offer has come from that loss and has come from the grace that i’ve been given.To confront loss and confront and hold my heart broken and continuing to do that and to allow it to be broken as opposed to trying to put things back together.”  [8:50]    “You get initiated and your perception changes! What you see and how you see changes and I think that there’s something in self initiation and I also know that there is so much value in having guidance and teachers.” [16:05]    “Each of us, although we have so many similarities and there are common threads; I’m just so interested in what people’s unique experiences are, because I think that that’s what this world and being human is, what separates us from nature.”  [40:45]   “Worshiping the body as the vehicle for the divine. That the divine, we inhabit that divinity, that energy and we can learn to become sensitive to it and to heal, especially womb related issues with different rituals and different practices and different ways to bring consciousness to something. That we’ve taught not only to ignore but that we’ve been heavily misinformed around.”[44:17]

Join the Self-Love Mastery Program and get the tools needed to master your love life in just 8 weeks!  https://www.josefinabashout.com/digital-courses/p/self-love-mastery-program   Today, I am teaching you to break free of your patterns of codependency! If you are struggling to find balance in your relationship, it may be time to get to know yourself better and identify any low level behaviors that are limiting your capacity to love and receive love. It is easy to blame your partner when you’re frustrated in your relationship, but the truth is you have co-created the dynamic you feel trapped by. When you enter into a relationship with no boundaries, you inevitably begin to lose your identity each time you deny your desires in exchange for satisfying theirs. If you want to attract the man of your dreams you first need to become the woman of your own dreams because you are your first and best choice. Codependency is a direct result of devaluing yourself. Today, I remind you that you are worthy, your desires are valid and you hold all the love you need. Once you've changed the narrative of your own life you will attract men who understand and respect your boundaries. Healthy relationships thrive when each person's desires are met and no one person is above the others. Today, you will recode your nervous system and recalibrate yourself to a higher frequency of love and light!   Key Takeaways: [3:20] Breaking patterns of codependency  [4:08] The difficulty of operating in your masculine energy within a relationship [5:00] Triggering the parts of you that feel unlovable [6:40] Putting aside your own needs without any boundaries  [7:40] Learning to recognize your codependent tendencies [8:10] Internalizing that you are lower or less than [9:05] Nervousness is a sign you have no secure attachment to yourself [10:00] Presenting yourself in the best light to avoid intimacy [10:20] Hiding the parts of yourself you’ve deemed unlovable [12:20] Avoiding the full experience of yourself  [12:50] You are your first and best choice [13:20] Taking radical responsibility over your desires  [15:40] Elevate yourself and accept that you are the prize [15:50] Breaking into an interdependent relationship [17:50] Claiming your desires as worthy [19:30] Not accepting low level behavior from yourself [23:00] Forgiving yourself for your own low standards in relationships [24:14] Start fresh and acknowledge your own humanity [25:30] Redirecting your energy to your own aspirations! [28:10] Shifting your narrative to worthiness [30:30] Knowing your energy is a precious resource  [31:30] Creating a filtration system based on your standards [34:30] Healthy relationships thrive when each person follows their own passions [36:00] Dating is a vehicle to discover how you want to be [37:10] Take pleasure in the process! [38:30] You need to meet yourself first and decide that you are worthy!   Connect with Josefina: Instagram: @josefinabashout @pusssypriestessshow Website: josefinabashout.com Awaken your confidence & feminine fire https://www.josefinabashout.com/awaken-the-fire-sign-up  Foria Wellness for dripping wet pleasure & arousal https://glnk.io/j703/josefinabashout 20% off JOSEFINABASHOUT20 Onna Lifestyle for pleasure tools  https://www.onnalifestyle.com/?ref=7SQdeda72sK20   Memorable Quotes: “When we tend to put the person first, their needs, their desires, what they’re thinking before we’ve even established relationship agreements, before we’ve even established if we’re dating or even in a relationship; women will tend to, because of our nurturing nature, focus upon the other person.We will love them more than we love ourselves and that’s a huge key of codependency.”  [5:42]   “We can present and posture ourselves in the best position and  light possible ;however, does that truly create a deep level of intimacy? The majority of the time, if not every time , the answer is no.” [9:55]   “Why do the radical responsible thing and put yourself first, choose yourself first, your desires, your goals, your own inner work in order to become your best first choice because it’s easier to look on the outside.” [13:30]   “It is easier to blame them and be disappointed in them than it is to take dominion and ownership on, like holyfuck!, this is actually my low level behavior! I’m accepting these breadcrumbs because that’s what I'm thinking I’m worthy of.” [22:15]   “You’re wasting energy waiting. You ain’t got time for this, my loves! This is where you recode yourself with worthiness and you develop the discipline of redirecting your focus and your energy to you! You have so many dreams and aspirations that can use this energy!” [25:30]   “In a healthy relationship, that is interdependent, wants you to have your own passion, wants you to have your own hobbies, your own joys that light you up because they know that you bring that to the relationship.” [34:10]    “You can have a radically different experience in dating, if you use dating and relating as a vehicle to help you learn more about who you’re being and who you desire to be.”   [36:15] 

Today, I want to emphasize just how powerful your femenine energy is; every time you radiate love and express your femininity, it is a revolutionary act. When I heard the news of Mahsa Amini’s death, I felt rage choking the femenine light within me, so I moved, I wrote and I consciously centered myself on love and harmony. Mahsa Amini’s death was just one tragic example of the terror our Iranian sisters are living in, under the morality police. It is this need to regulate a woman’s innate sexuality that is preventing fertility and the union of masculine and femenine energy on this planet.    In this episode, I implore you to fully embrace your femininity because the revolution begins with your own liberation.The old repressive systems that once choked the femenine existence are crumbling. It is justifiable to feel angry at these atrocities but If you surrender to that anger, the pendulum will only swing to the opposite extreme and you won’t be any closer to restoring harmony. Your femenine energy is healing energy and that is what our world needs now. I believe that our true purpose, here on earth, is to find balance between the sexes and create a world of love and harmony for generations to come. Reclaim your femininity and join the revolution!   Key Takeaways: [3:20] Masha Amini’s story [4:20] How her desire for freedom offended the morality police [5:30] Femenine revolts in the streets of Iran [6:45] Women are being raped in police custody [7:10] This is beyond spirituality, the divine femenine is revolting against these crumbling systems. [8:25] The consciousness of the femenine is awakening in every being on the planet [9:10] Be courageous because this ends here with you! [10:05] A new age of balanced energies between the sexes [11:00] Allow your community to experience your own divine femenine [11:45] It is your emotions that have been exiled! [12:00] Channeling your energy into creating harmony and love in the world [12:30] The revolution begins by liberating yourself [13:00] Allowing the men in your life to love and support us [13:30] The revolution is erotic [15:00] Your sacred sexuality is not meant to be controlled [16:00] Labeling your erotisicm as immoral prevents the sacred union of masculine and femenine [17:40] These narratives are blocking the fertility that creates the masculine polarity of attraction  [18:10] Women are not the problem, unconscious fearful thinking is the problem [19:14] It starts with you expanding your capacity for love [20:00] Men are an integral part of this revolution [20:30] Do you want your children to suffer under the same repression as your ancestors? [22:30] You are doing the work for the next 7 generations [23:50] Consciously move your rage because you are not meant to remain stuck in your rage [25:06] Coming back into union and harmony [25:40] Reclaim the parts of you that have been exiled   Connect with Josefina: Instagram: @josefinabashout @pusssypriestessshow Website: josefinabashout.com Awaken your confidence & feminine fire https://www.josefinabashout.com/awaken-the-fire-sign-up  Foria Wellness for dripping wet pleasure & arousal https://glnk.io/j703/josefinabashout 20% off JOSEFINABASHOUT20 Onna Lifestyle for pleasure tools  https://www.onnalifestyle.com/?ref=7SQdeda72sK20   Memorable Quotes: “What’s unfortunate is, even if it’s peaceful, even if they’re just standing in the streets with their hair uncovered these women are being beaten, they’re being thrown into jail and what’s happening when they’re being thrown into jail, now they’re being raped.”  [6:30]   “To turn a blind eye and to say that the divine femenine rising is just some bullshit esoteric thing that's just in the spiritual community, I want to put an end to that right now and say open your eyes! Pay attention to what’s happening because these systems are crumbing. Women have had absolutely enough!” [7:05]   “Now it's time to come back to more equilibrium of balance of the sexes, not fighting against the mascluine, not fighting against the patriarchy but just by being the revolution, by being the change in your community…[10:25]   “It is our emotions that have been exiled! Our rage, our grief, our sadness. These emotions are sacred, these emotions are powerful and these frequencies are all divine when we can channel them in a way that isn’t harmful to our loved ones, that isn’t harmful to the planet. That we can find ways to let them burn to channel this energy into something that brings more harmony…”[11:43]   “To say that this is immoral is only creating a further and further gap between the true evolutionary intent of being on this planet in two separate bodies of masculine and femenine which is for us to come back into the divine model of union.Sacred union.”  [16:00]

In today’s episode, I wanted to share 3 success stories from women who have weathered the storm and have used my courses to liberate themselves from their own judgments.    Your sexuality mirrors how you live your life and if you are struggling to accept pleasure I hope hearing these women’s experiences gives you the permission to explore your sacred sexuality.    When you step into your sexual soveregnty, it pours over into every aspect of your life. The confidence you desire is at the end of the journey; take the first step today by doing what your heart is yearning for without judgment. Stop questioning your worthiness because no outside entity will give you what you desire, you are the source. You are worthy and plentiful and by applying my daily practices, you will open to the opportunities around you, shed your victim mentality and step into your full power to create a life of pleasure and prosperity.     Key Takeaways: [2:05] Your sexuality is how you express your deepest eros [3:20] The way you express your sexuality mirrors how you live your life [4:00] Embracing your sexuality opens portals of opportunity and invites you to level up in life [5:20] Deepening the connection and awareness of your body [6:10] The world needs you to live in your sacred sexual sovereignty  [8:00] A success story: Proof that having the courage to meet yourself will transform your life [9:40] Client letter: Your permission slip to express your true desires [12:30] How you relate to the issue, is the issue [14:00] Feeling guilt free receiving pleasure  [14:20] Guiding women on their discovery of their divine femenin,turns me on! [15:06] Ignoring logic and following your heart’s calling  [16:10] Success is learning to dance with your shadow and rise in your divine femenine  [17:20] Allowing yourself to receive pleasure unabashedly  [19:00] Yazmine’s Testimony: Transforming how you show up in the world [20:40] Camilla’s Testimony: Loving yourself before you are capable of loving others [23:10] You don’t know what will happen when you embrace your pleasure! [23:45] Cultivating courage and confidence through commitment  [24:17] Confidence is the LAST thing you receive on the journey  [25:20] Your confidence will meet you in your anxiety [26:00] Choose to be your best choice [26:30] Just do it!     Connect with Josefina: Instagram: @josefinabashout @pusssypriestessshow Website: josefinabashout.com Awaken your confidence & feminine fire  https://www.josefinabashout.com/awaken-the-fire-sign-up    Foria Wellness for dripping wet pleasure & arousal https://glnk.io/j703/josefinabashout 20% off JOSEFINABASHOUT20   Onna Lifestyle for pleasure tools  https://www.onnalifestyle.com/?ref=7SQdeda72sK20     Memorable Quotes: “The more you are connected to your sexuality, the more intuitive, sensitive and spiritually connected to nature and to all things. Your sexuality brings a hunger for life, for meaning, for depth, for sensuality, for sacredness and your life becomes more of a ceremonial ritual.”  [3:40]   “Claiming your power and pleasure turns the keys in the doors of life onto your soul's desires and the truth is right now, right now the world needs you in your pleasure.”  [6:30]   “I realized, many years ago, that I was just giving more and more of my power away to a source outside of me when I am the source! You are the source and remembering that source moves through us. Consciousness moves through us and it is our work to have our daily practices, to have our rituals and to get out of our way, so we can receive more and more.”  [17:54]

Today I speak with Aimee Batuski, founder of “Desire on Fire”. She helps you identify your intimacy style so that you can reignite the spark of desire in your life. The pleasure path is not always easy, sometimes, it can be downright humiliating. By surrendering to your deepest wants, you will not just improve your sex life but you will become connected to your higher self. Desire is your life force, and without it our goals, relationships and our pursuits  become burdens instead of gratifying experiences. Aimee will teach you how to speak up and deepen the love you have for yourself so that you can be open to receiving the love you deserve and truly devote yourself to the path of pleasure.   Key Takeaways:  [6:10] Sex positive and Self consious: Internalizing cultural messages  [8:30] The Femenine path [14:00] Forging your own path without fear of judgment [17:20] Creating for yourself in spite of your lower self voices [18:30] Achievement at the detriment of deeper desires [20:10] 5 Intimacy styles: Cool Girl, Party Girl, Independent Woman, The Giver and The Receiving Queen [23:00] Doing it all alone leads leaves women lacking vulnerability and dissociating from the body [25:00] Allowing yourself to ask for help: Don’t wait till your body forces you to surrender  [28:10] Life after honeymoon bliss: Why does the spark fade? [30:15]The Erotic Blueprints: Resting, Curiosity, Adventurous and Transformational  [32:30] The Pleasure path is not pleasurable all the time [33:30] Admitting what you want can feel Humiliating [36:00] Being devoted to the path of desire [40:20] Voicing your desires regardless if you receive a “No”  [42:00] The spark goes out when we lose our connection to desire [48:40] Practicing with Men and Processing with Women [50:30] Self penetrating: getting to the root of your desire and bringing it to your partner [58:00] Moving from the head to the full body experience   Resources: http://www.desireonfire.com http://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/ - Link to our Intimacy Styles Quiz: https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/60bfceb6749e3400170c1da5\ - Here's your affiliate link: https://josefinabashout.krtra.com/t/6SI5A0Wo3RXc - Desire on Fire Experience promo: Join us (and 300+ women!) in-person/virtually at the Desire on Fire Experience event, Oct 29-30 in Los Angeles, California! www.desireonfirelive.com Code: PRIESTESS for $200 off the regular ticket price!   Connect with Josefina: Instagram: @josefinabashout @pusssypriestessshow Website: josefinabashout.com     Awaken your confidence & feminine fire  https://www.josefinabashout.com/awaken-the-fire-sign-up    Foria Wellness for dripping wet pleasure & arousal https://glnk.io/j703/josefinabashout 20% off JOSEFINABASHOUT20   Onna Lifestyle for pleasure tools  https://www.onnalifestyle.com/?ref=7SQdeda72sK20   Memorable Quotes: “If we believe these lower self voices then our passion, our fire, our  drive, our life force can’t come alive to create magic, that  then serves the entire world.”  [17:20] -Josefina Bashout    “I see a lot of women who are very high achieving and it’s based on their conditioning or based on what they think they're supposed to achieve but they are capable of that! They have the capacity and the capability to reach the goals or get things done or fulfill their mission or their dream or whatever and sometimes it’s at the detriment of these other more tender desires.” [19:00] -Aimee Batuski   “When we are trying to hold it all together and do it all ourselves, of course we’re not in our highest pleasure!”  [24:20] -Aimee Batuski    “They are so goal oriented that their sex, their pleasure and their body and their intimacy isn’t even on the radar to be prioritized.” [31:11] -Aimee Batuski    “The pleasure path is filled with portals…It is a devotional path. Just like how you would make love and be in devotion, the path requires us to be in that devotion.” [35:35] -Josefina Bashout   “Everytime I have a vulnerable desire, which is often, it feels humiliating to admit, it really does. It feels like I’m throwing myself off a cliff like naked in front of a million people. It’s so scary.” [38:22] -Aimee Batuski

Known as the Self Love and Manifestation Queen, Gina Swire teaches women to practice self-love and self-pleasure to deepen their sexual experieces and life as a whole. Today we discuss everything from Temple parties in Bali, the liberating decision of celibacy, and even meeting your edge at sex parties. There is so much to discover in sacred sexuality but it all begins with loving yourself, your body and surrendering to the divine. Join us for a very fun and juicy conversation to help you see how beautiful and sexy you are and how to carry that energy in all facets of your being.   Key Takeaways: [5:30] Life without Self Love  [8:00] Discovering Self Love [12:00] Atonement of thought: returning to the truth  [14:30] Body acceptance leads to multi-orgasmic experiences  [16:00] Temple parties: Sexually expressive spaces [18:20] Sacred  Sexuality: Orgies vs Temple Parties [20:15] Experiencing a Temple Party without Self Love  [22:20] Ayahuasca experience: making love with spirit [25:00] Being in a loving relationship with our sexuality [27:30] Sexually independent: developing a self love and self pleasure practice [30:00] We are sovereign sexual beings [34:25] Magnetically atracting sexual partners after Shifting out of celibacy  [38:30] Ebony Ivory meditation medicine: Surrendering all of it  [39:40] Opting in to the unknown in the name of self love  [43:00] It’s not your physical appearance it’s in your energy transmission  [44:30] When your energy is clogged and slipping out of remembering how amazing we are [50:00] Honesty is liberating to yourself and the ones around you  [55:00] Meeting your edge [59:30] Self love is necessary to join the arena of sexual play   Resources: https://www.ginaswire.com/   https://www.instagram.com/GINASWIRE/   https://apps.apple.com/pt/app/gina-swire/id1629032416   Memorable Quotes: “Even if I was left alone or the person I wanted to connect with wasn’t connecting with me, I have an incredible self pleasure practice. I would just dance, I would just move, I would meditate, I would talk to people or I’de be on my own and that is the self love aspect.”  [21:17] -Gina Swire   “Even in the most sacred ceremonial container I can meet my own smaller version of myself, my own ego self, my part that tries to protect or keep me small.”   [22:47] -Josefina Bashout   “I am my own best lover, I am an amazing lover to myself. My sex with myself, I get to fuck myself whenever I want, and it’s amazing! So although I did have a desire to have a partner again but I just really was in my healing.”  [28:07] -Gine Swire   “I think it's more masuline to say, I need this order and it’s got to happen now and trying to command and order and direct. That energy is more polarizing and pushing away, in my experience, pushing away the desires because it’s coming from a lack.”  [42:09]   “Partly you get to take some action in letting it go but it will be let go when it’s ready.” [46:15] -Gina Swire