Overcoming PTSD with Brad Schipke
Overcoming PTSD with Brad Schipke
Overcoming PTSD
#83 Responsibility Blame and Excuses | Recovery Secrets Series
52 minutes Posted Jan 21, 2026 at 12:00 pm.
– Welcome to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching01:15 – Why today’s topic is a “hug and kick in the butt”02:40 – Acceptance vs responsibility: what changes when you own it04:05 – Blame and excuses: common patterns we all fall into05:30 – Story: misplacing items and instantly blaming others07:10 – Diet, partners, and the “I can’t because of my family” excuse08:45 – Traffic, being late, and how we give away control09:30 – The danger of handing your responsibility to the outside world11:20 – How blame turns you into a victim and steals your power13:00 – Turning “they did this” into “this is my responsibility”14:40 – Radical responsibility for being on time, rega
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Stop Letting PTSD Run the Show: How Radical Responsibility Gives You Your Life BackFrom Victim of Trauma to Leader of Your Life: The Truth About Blame, Excuses, and PTSDPTSD Recovery Starts With You: Taking Ownership Instead of Waiting for Life to ChangeHow Blaming Trauma, Triggers, and the Past Is Keeping You Stuck With PTSDResponsibility vs Excuses: The Mindset Shift Every Trauma Survivor NeedsPTSD, Anxiety, and “It’s Not My Fault”: Reclaiming Your Power With Radical ResponsibilityTrauma, Relationships, and Blame: Why Waiting on Others Is Delaying Your HealingFrom “I Can’t Because of Trauma” to “How Can I?” – Rewriting Your PTSD StoryWhy Your PTSD Recovery Changes When You Stop Making ExcusesTaking Ownership of Your Healing: The Real Turning Point in Trauma Recovery
Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
In this coaching session, Brad walks you through one of the most uncomfortable but life-changing shifts in PTSD and trauma recovery: moving from blame and excuses to full responsibility. Instead of giving your power away to circumstances, people, or your past, you’ll learn how to bring that power back into your own hands.
You’ll hear real-life examples around relationships, diet, sobriety, clutter, and being late, and how we often unconsciously hand our responsibility over to traffic, partners, kids, or even the pandemic. Brad shows how this pattern quietly keeps you stuck feeling like a victim with no real options to change.
Most importantly, he gives you a simple, practical question to ask yourself when you catch blame or excuses showing up: “How can I?” This one shift turns walls into doorways, helping you access choices, creativity, and confidence even when PTSD, ADHD, or stress feel overwhelming.
By the end of the episode, you’ll understand why taking responsibility for both the “bad” and the “good” in your life is not about self-blame—it’s about reclaiming control, building self-respect, and owning your progress as you heal from trauma.
 
💡 What You’ll Learn
How blame and excuses quietly steal your power and control
Why giving responsibility to PTSD, other people, or circumstances keeps you stuck
The difference between unhealthy self-blame and healthy responsibility
How to use the “How can I?” question to find options instead of dead ends
Ways to take ownership of your diet, sobriety, routines, and environment
How responsibility builds real confidence, not fake positivity
Why you can still move forward even with PTSD, ADHD, or health limitations
A simple daily exercise to track when you’re blaming or making excuses
How to choose one area of life to fully own and transform
 
🧠 Key Takeaway
Your life changes the moment you stop saying “It’s because of them” or “Because of PTSD” and start asking, “How can I take responsibility and change this?”
 
🔗 Next Steps
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