Why are modern marriages breaking down? In this episode, I argue that one of the root causes is that both men and women are wanting a wife. The secretary problem reveals an enduring male preference: men will enter into relationships with women who help them. However, mismatched expectations around roles, reciprocity, and value exchange are frustrating the formation of relationships today.Join my community: https://the-captains-quarters.mn.coBuy my book, ”The Value of Others”Ebook: https://amzn.to/460uGrAAudiobook: https://amzn.to/3YfFwbxPaperback: https://amzn.to/3xQuIFKBuy my book, ”Starry Night”Ebook: https://amzn.to/4qJrh9UAudiobook: https://amzn.to/3LuUJRSPaperback: https://amzn.to/4sGcqOYBook a paid consultation: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com/consultationsSubscribe to my newsletter: https://oriontarabanpsyd.comSocial MediaTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@oriontarabanFacebook: https://facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090053889622LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/orion-taraban-070b45168/Instagram: https://instagram.com/psyc.hacksTwitter: https://twitter.com/oriontarabanWebsite: https://oriontarabanpsyd.comOrion’s Theme: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WrXBzQ2HDEQThinking of going to grad school? Check out STELLAR, my top-rated GRE self-study program based on the world’s only empirically-validated test prep system. Use the code ”PSYCH” for 10% off all membership plans: https://stellargre.com.Become a Stellar affiliate and earn a 10% commission for every membership purchased by a new student you conduct into the program: https://stellargre.tapfiliate.com.GRE Bites: https://www.youtube.com/@grebites4993Become a Psychonaut and join PsycHack’s member community: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSduXBjCHkLoo_y9ss2xzXw/joinSound mixing/editing by: valntinomusic.comPresented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world.#psychology #relationship #marriage