Attachment theory dominates modern dating advice, but this might be leading men in the wrong direction. In this episode, I explain why emotional attachment matters more for women, and how its misapplication distorts expectations in relationships. Instead, I argue that men should detach – not out of indifference, but in order to lead with clarity and confidence. This is how men show up at their best.Join my community: https://the-captains-quarters.mn.coBuy my book, ”Starry Night”Ebook: https://amzn.to/4qJrh9UAudiobook: https://amzn.to/3LuUJRSPaperback: https://amzn.to/4sGcqOYBuy my book, ”The Value of Others”Ebook: https://amzn.to/460uGrAAudiobook: https://amzn.to/3YfFwbxPaperback: https://amzn.to/3xQuIFKBook a paid consultation: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com/consultationsSubscribe to my newsletter: https://oriontarabanpsyd.comSocial MediaTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@oriontarabanFacebook: https://facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090053889622LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/orion-taraban-070b45168/Instagram: https://instagram.com/psyc.hacksTwitter: https://twitter.com/oriontarabanWebsite: https://oriontarabanpsyd.comOrion’s Theme: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WrXBzQ2HDEQThinking of going to grad school? Check out STELLAR, my top-rated GRE self-study program based on the world’s only empirically-validated test prep system. Use the code ”PSYCH” for 10% off all membership plans: https://stellargre.com.Become a Stellar affiliate and earn a 10% commission for every membership purchased by a new student you conduct into the program: https://stellargre.tapfiliate.com.GRE Bites: https://www.youtube.com/@grebites4993Become a Psychonaut and join PsycHack’s member community: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSduXBjCHkLoo_y9ss2xzXw/joinSound mixing/editing by: valntinomusic.comPresented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world.#psychology #relationship #men