What would forgiving yourself look like?

What would it mean to forgive yourself for the worst thing you've ever done - or that happened to you?

Would it mean that it didn't happen?

Would it mean that it was ok?

Would it mean I'm weak? I deserved it? I'm unworthy of trust? of love? of another chance?

My friend... I have news for you: With all the love and respect in the world, you're not that important. ;-) !!!