Discussed: Your why comes from your pain and telegraphs a pathway (how-to) to helping around you to overcome similar ordeals. The Growth Mindset (PowerWise Thinking) is to not live in the negative but look for redeeming values that could be applied to help others overcome. For you and me we are built to serve. According to Mahatma Gandhi, the best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in service to others”.