Parenting is all about finding that balance, its just figuring out what works best for you and your family. Figuring out whats best for your child/children and their individual personality. Its learning when to push them a little harder and knowing when to take a step back. We often put unrealistic expectations on children that lead to other issues, problems, and insecurities. We are learning through trial and error, but thats how we grow, by making mistakes and falling and adjusting so that we can do better next time.