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59. Masculinity & Non-Monogamy: A Man’s Memoir with Adam of Seek the Risk
57 minutes Posted Jun 17, 2025 at 9:00 am.
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Adam is the author of Seek the Risk, the only memoir I know of by a man about non-monogamy. In this episode, he shares how being with a female partner who was more sexually active than he was challenged his sense of masculinity. He talks about how he overcame those feelings using techniques from his extreme sports background, including recognizing harmful inner narratives and reframing fear.


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