Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we discuss how Paul outlined the qualifications for deacons, and even of their wives. This portion parallels what Paul taught concerning the bishop needing godly character. Deacons must be dignified, sincere, sober, blameless, not greedy, and hold the faith with a pure conscience. Their wives must also meet strict standards. Deacons are servants, not power‑holders. Their conduct must be proven, gaining honorable standing through their faithful service ...