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504 - The Myth of Relaxed Playing (Dojo Conversations Episode 159)
44 minutes Posted Apr 20, 2026 at 12:00 pm.
– Why “just relax” isn’t helpful advice
– The myth of the chill player (and a Bob Marley detour)
– The chill–tension continuum: finding your baseline
– Recording anxiety and the tendency to rush
– Hand cramping and fears around focal dystonia
– Stuart Liddell’s playing and the sound of real ease
– Reactive vs proactive rhythm: why rushing happens
– “Pretending to be relaxed” – spotting avoidance
– How responsibility changes your relationship to “chill”
– Pre-chill, false chill, and what’s really going on
– Why most “chill” is actually denial
– Pre-chill vs post-chill: earning relaxation
– What genuine relaxation actually feels like
– Posture, tension, and diagnosing cramping
– “Slow is smooth, smooth is fast” in real practice
– Is it fast playing, or just well-controlled?
– The “victory lap” trick: can you fake relaxation?
– Avoiding avoidance: the real solution
– Preparation vs relaxation in great players
– Competition chaos: making it up mid-performance
– A practical action plan: record, assess, adjust
– What “wealth” looks like in your playing
– Finger tension: finding the balance
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What if trying to be relaxed when you play is actually a kind of denial – one that could affect your overall development as a piper?
This week, Andrew and Jim explore what real control and calm actually look like in practice, why rushing and cramping show up when they do, and how many players end up stuck in a kind of “false chill” that can limit progress.
Here’s what we cover in this episode:
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