Parent Driven DevelopmentEpisode 039: Parenting Roles and Gender Equality with Richard SchneemanWelcome Richard Schneeman!Schneems writes Ruby at Heroku, and maintains CodeTriage.com, a tool for helping people contribute to Open Source. He is in the top 50 Rails contributors and is an accidental maintainer of Sprockets and Puma. When he isn't obsessively compulsively refactoring code for performance, he writes such gems as Wicked, and derailed_benchmarks.The book: All the Rage: Mothers Fathers and the Myth of Equal Partnership Co-parenting, gender equalityProgressive relationships default into gender roles after kidsWhat’s fair?Progressive until they have to make a change..Dad’s get applauded when caring for children in publicCreating boundaries of designated mom and dad jobs with the kidsHow to balance and create boundaries between partners RSVP’s - CC’d emails, response, birthday presents, who’s responsible?Coding pairs and how they relateCreate a systemThe mentorship mannerNot only doing what is asked, but proactively taking stepsPartners double checking each others work, basically twice the work!Micro managingShared task and to-do listsBringing work management systems into home management systems; Learning AGILESchedule a weekly meeting with your partner to go over shared caredCheck the calendar!Josh’s daughter gets her hair dyed and it looks great, but her new conditioner leaks the blue color from her hair all over the bathroom! #failChris coordinates Grandpa time to give his wife more free time #geniusRichard’s son glues his favorite picture on his bedroom wall, with handwritten marker too #geniusfailAllison has a genius in Sweden with her two young childrenAll the Rage: Mothers, Father, and the Myth of Equal PartnershipFollow & SupportPlease follow us @parentdrivendev on Twitter or email us at [email protected]. Our website is at ParentDrivenDevelopment.com.Support us via Patreon and get access to our our Slack Community.*As an Amazon Associate we earn from qualifying purchases.PanelAllison McMillanChris ArcandJosh PuetzSpecial Guest: Richard Schneeman .