February is the month of love and when a lot of us who're looking for love feel the most vulnerable. In our search for the right partner, we expend our self esteem and our decision making muscle. 

It doesn't have to be that way if we remember how Big Tech and the App industry is exploiting our weaknesses and making us hooked. 

Ghosting, benching, and gas lighting knows no gender differences. Understand the pitfalls of being cat fished and good luck on the journey. Here are strategies that can help you understand your strengths and mitigate your weak points.