Show notes
Does sex leave you feeling energized, rejuvenated, transformed, ecstatic and like it changed your life?
If not, you’re doing it wrong.
It’s easy to have “tick-the-box” sex. Anyone can do that.
Couples can have sex a few times a week even. 5-15 minute encounters.
He gets off. She gets off—with a clitoral orgasm either through oral or a vibrator.
They high-five and call it a night.
In Anami Land, if it didn’t change your life, you aren’t doing it right.
In this episode:
- How to take your sex from superficial to life-changing
- What does it mean to emotionally surrender?
- What does it mean to sexually surrender?
- What is the difference between sex that changes your life and sex that puts you to sleep? What does it look like?
- Anami non-negotiables to reach these higher states of sex and love
- What happens in 90 minutes of oral sex
- What happens while holding an hour of eye contact during intercourse
- Fast-food, normie, NPC sex vs. sexual medicine Anami-style

