: Not many people on the planet have the same safety and security situation. Jessica Esfandiary.3:54: My livelihood is not at stake if somebody finds out I am in a polyamorous marriage. - Jessica Esfandiary.5:36: Acting was the love of my life before I met my husband. - Jessica Esfandiary.8:17: Anything that feels addicting and intoxicating, you want to moderate a little bit. - Jessica Esfandiary.10:42: If we don't have the right serotonin balance, we might forget to do things like feeding ourselves or going to the gym. So think about your own health and well-being first. - Jessica Esfandiary.11:06: The moment you sacrifice your own practice and routine is when you get out of balance. - Jessica Esfandiary.13:50: Until we have more visibility and representation in media, culture, and educational settings about relationships, it will continue to be feared and seen as something that won't work. - Jessica Esfandiary.17:51: Having conversations that feel uncomfortable can be valuable as they create more intimacy. - Jessica Esfandiary.20:42: This evolution is constantly churning, much like a snake that sheds its skin and is reborn. - Jessica Esfandiary.21:58: I didn't have much sexual confidence before meeting my husband. In fact, I allowed men to choose me. I started relationships with people who wanted to hook up with me, and then I would try to make them my boyfriend. - Jessica Esfandiary.22:31: Maybe once or twice, I was bold enough to say, "I want to hook up with that guy," and I actually went and did it. - Jessica Esfandiary.28:14: Sometimes, mismatched desires can be a deal-breaker. - Jessica Esfandiary.Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.• Open Smarter CourseThe product I love who support this show:• Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20• The Oh Club OPENLATE• Desire Resorts This is a Sabbatical Jess Production