What do we do when our kids ignore our advice, make a mess of things—and then expect us to help clean it up? In today’s episode of Oma’s Musings, I’m talking about that hard spot many of us parents and grandparents land in. We love them so deeply, but their choices often affect us—emotionally and even financially. Let’s talk about boundaries, grace, and how to walk this season with both love and wisdom.
Welcome to Oma’s Musings—a cozy space where life slows down, faith runs deep, and the clutter (both physical and emotional) begins to clear. I’m Kathy—wife, mom, Oma, and now navigating this beautifully messy season of retirement.
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