Whom you are surrounded by will have a huge impact on your beliefs, habits, and personal energy, and factor into what you do or don't think is possible.  When you look around at the people you spend most of your time with, what recurring themes emerge?  Is it a space of support?  Do you find yourself feeling defeated and overwhelmed?  Are you able to show up authentically as yourself, or do you notice that you play down certain things about yourself to avoid disrupting the dyanmics?  Listen in to the coaching conversation.