Not My Type Enneagram
Not My Type Enneagram
Jack Houser
Object Relations - Heads or Tails?
37 minutes Posted Feb 14, 2024 at 10:00 am.
Overview / review of Object Relations
Assertive Types (3, 7, 8) and the Nurturing Object
Compliant Types (1, 2, 6) and the Protecting Object
Withdrawn Types (4, 5, 9) and the Belonging Object
Hexad vs. Triangle
Using a quarter as an "object" lesson: Frustration and Rejection as two sides of the same coin
Attachment Types continuing connection to their Objects
7 and 8 having opposite affects toward the Nurturing Object
Hexads per Center of Intelligence as inversions of each other
Jack vocalizing his opinions
Triangle types ending up somewhere they didn't intend to be
Hexad types having already toppled / landed
Attachment Types refusing to individuate
Difference between the life journeys of triangle types and hexad types
Jessica's real-time Frustration
Sample of a past argument
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Jack and Jessica discuss a model of Object Relations manifesting on a quarter.
0:40 - Overview / review of Object Relations
3:00 - Assertive Types (3, 7, 8) and the Nurturing Object
4:09 - Compliant Types (1, 2, 6) and the Protecting Object
6:08 - Withdrawn Types (4, 5, 9) and the Belonging Object
7:53 - Hexad vs. Triangle
9:27 - Using a quarter as an "object" lesson: Frustration and Rejection as two sides of the same coin
13:53 - Attachment Types continuing connection to their Objects
15:54 - 7 and 8 having opposite affects toward the Nurturing Object
17:13 - Hexads per Center of Intelligence as inversions of each other
20:56 - Jack vocalizing his opinions
22:15 - Triangle types ending up somewhere they didn't intend to be
24:46 - Hexad types having already toppled / landed
25:37 - Attachment Types refusing to individuate
27:49 - Difference between the life journeys of triangle types and hexad types
30:36 - Jessica's real-time Frustration
33:40 - Sample of a past argument
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