No Longer Nomads
No Longer Nomads
Josh Doyle
62 - When Marriage Shatters: Hope, Healing, and Honest Theology with Lysa TerKeurst and Dr. Joel Muddamalle
30 minutes Posted Dec 9, 2025 at 11:00 am.
– The Pain No One Expects: Lysa’s Opening Words00:26 – What No Longer Nomads Is All About01:01 – Introducing Lysa TerKeurst & Dr. Joel Muddamalle01:23 – Why Lysa Wrote Surviving an Unwanted Divorce03:09 – “I Never Thought Divorce Would Be My Story”04:12 – The Two People Who Helped Her Survive05:17 – Early Reactions to the Book06:13 – Meet Dr. Joel: From Bible Nerd to Theology Leader07:52 – When Theology Meets Real Life Pain09:11 – Parenting, Emotions, and the Pressures of Marriage09:58 – Matthew 19 Explained: What Jesus Was Really Saying11:50 – The Cultural Context Behind Divorce Laws14:08 – Why Jesus Elevated the Dignity of Women15:19 – Romans 8: How God Brings Good from Suffering16:03 – Joseph’s Story, Your Story: “But God…”17:12 – Redemption Isn’t Always Reconciliation18:30 – Is Marriage Becoming an Idol? Hard Truths19:47 – Healing Before Dating: Why It Matters20:33 – How Dysfunction Can Feel Like “Normal”21:52 – When Marriage Is Elevated Above the Image Bearer23:10 – Avoiding Counterfeits While You Heal24:49 – Learning to Sit With Your Own Thoughts25:59 – The Most Important Word in the Bible: THROUGH27:09 – You Are Not Beyond Repair27:32 – Why You May Never Get the Closure You Want28:50 – Lysa’s Word to Listeners: “What Happened to You Was Wrong.”29:28 – Where to Find Lysa & Dr. Joel30:02 – Closing Thoughts & Next Week’s Episode#SurvivingAnUnwantedDivorce #LysaTerKeurst #FaithThroughPain #TherapyAndTheologyThanks for listening. Have a guest suggestion? Reach out at nolongernomads.co
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Write into the show! What do you do when your life shatters in a way you never saw coming?In today’s powerful episode of No Longer Nomads, host Josh Doyle sits down with bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst and biblical scholar Dr. Joel Muddamalle to talk honestly about pain, divorce, theology, healing, and the God who walks with us through it all.Lysa opens up about her deeply personal journey that inspired her new book, Surviving an Unwanted Divorce, and the years of heartbreak, counseling, and rebuilding that followed. Dr. Joel brings rich biblical context—breaking down passages like Matthew 19—and helps us understand what Scripture really says about marriage, divorce, dignity, and the heart of God toward His hurting children.Whether you’re navigating your own divorce, supporting someone who is, or simply facing a season of pain, this conversation offers hope, clarity, and truth.You were never meant to wander alone.Featured ResourceSurviving an Unwanted Divorce by Lysa TerKeurstFind it wherever books are sold or at https://Proverbs31.orgGot a topic or guest you want to hear?Visit https://NoLongerNomads.co for merch, newsletter updates, and exclusive content.Chapters:00:00 – The Pain No One Expects: Lysa’s Opening Words00:26 – What No Longer Nomads Is All About01:01 – Introducing Lysa TerKeurst & Dr. Joel Muddamalle01:23 – Why Lysa Wrote Surviving an Unwanted Divorce03:09 – “I Never Thought Divorce Would Be My Story”04:12 – The Two People Who Helped Her Survive05:17 – Early Reactions to the Book06:13 – Meet Dr. Joel: From Bible Nerd to Theology Leader07:52 – When Theology Meets Real Life Pain09:11 – Parenting, Emotions, and the Pressures of Marriage09:58 – Matthew 19 Explained: What Jesus Was Really Saying11:50 – The Cultural Context Behind Divorce Laws14:08 – Why Jesus Elevated the Dignity of Women15:19 – Romans 8: How God Brings Good from Suffering16:03 – Joseph’s Story, Your Story: “But God…”17:12 – Redemption Isn’t Always Reconciliation18:30 – Is Marriage Becoming an Idol? Hard Truths19:47 – Healing Before Dating: Why It Matters20:33 – How Dysfunction Can Feel Like “Normal”21:52 – When Marriage Is Elevated Above the Image Bearer23:10 – Avoiding Counterfeits While You Heal24:49 – Learning to Sit With Your Own Thoughts25:59 – The Most Important Word in the Bible: THROUGH27:09 – You Are Not Beyond Repair27:32 – Why You May Never Get the Closure You Want28:50 – Lysa’s Word to Listeners: “What Happened to You Was Wrong.”29:28 – Where to Find Lysa & Dr. Joel30:02 – Closing Thoughts & Next Week’s Episode#SurvivingAnUnwantedDivorce #LysaTerKeurst #FaithThroughPain #TherapyAndTheologyThanks for listening. Have a guest suggestion? Reach out at nolongernomads.co