What happens when desire, identity and fear of judgement all collide behind a carefully locked door? In this episode I open up an honest, adult conversation about secrecy in BDSM - why it exists, who it protects and when it starts to do more harm than good.

Is privacy empowering or isolating? Is discretion about safety, shame , reputation or all three?

Plus a story about a wife's revenge that resulted in punishment with a patisserie!

As always, Joe Bloggs steps in as our fearless, clueless member of the public and her own unique sparkling wit and repartee.

Adults only. Curiosity encouraged. Judgement left outside.